Ep. 50: Is 29 The Perfect Age? Probably Not Ft. Rachel Goldman
29 probably isn't the perfect age but we explore...Rachel, my long-time friend a former Soul Cycle instructor, and I discuss things we've mastered by 29: feeding ourselves, prioritizing the morning, learning about fragrance, how to shave our legs, dressing for the occasion, what beauty treatments are worth splurging it, office makeup etc. And then there are the things we haven’t mastered: ironing boards, washing instructions, the color wheel, when to get rid of old clothes, how to wrap a present, etc.
We discuss hormones and facial hair, cosmetic surgery on the eve of our 30s, lip fillers for Rachel’s LA life, and her experience going from being a soul cycle instructor to doing absolutely nothing – she shares what changed & what stayed absolutely the same (very surprising insights here on what sweating does for skin). Rachel is so much fun, you guys will love this episode (slightly NSFW towards the end) Enjoy!
Products/Resources Mentioned
Guardian article on being 29: here
To learn about fragrances: base notes lucky scent
Truth about nail salons in NYC: via the NyTimes
Ayurvedic Facial in NYC: Pratima
Sephora Facial Machine
Korean Nose Strips - use at your own risk
Marie Kondo to learn how to pack
Poshmark to sell clothes
Selling to The RealReal
Makeup Brush Cleaner
Maybeline Full N Soft the mascara Rachel has sworn by her whole life
Drybar Dry Shampoo - great volume but according to Rachel also makes hair look like you dandruff so you need to wash out
Ouia products for hair (wave spray, volumizing spray, hair oil) - amazing smell Rachel loves
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Ep. 49: Natural Childbirth, Locs & The Creative Process Ft. A-lan Holt
“I feel like it is the root of my work to create opportunities for women who look different” — my amazing guest, A-Lan Holt
A-lan is a filmmaker, writer, all around creator, mother and dear friend. You guys are in for a treat with this episode because A-lan is thinking through her experience as a woman and a creative on a higher level than most — but also doing so in a totally humble, down-to-earth, lovable way
She is Stanford’s Interim Executive Director of the Institute for Diversity in the Arts and so we talk about how she’s able to create institutional change with her role. A-lan explains the beauty lessons she inherited growing up in LA — from her Aunt who wore sisterlocs and Grandma who was a ‘silver fox’.We talk about her experience as a curvy woman, her self-confidence, and how she thinks about perception and representation when she’s casting roles for her film projects.
The part of the conversation that really blew my mind: A-lan’s experience with natural childbirth and why she decided to opt-out of the hospital/ ‘business of birth’ to bring her daughter into the world. She was a young mother and she goes into how that impacted her experience of pregnancy too. We also talk about what actually goes down post-birth and alllll the things they don’t quite tell you.
Best quote: "The best way I can describe giving birth without drugs, is like being on shrooms kind of. It’s very much like this trip. Your body at different moments during the pregnancy releases different chemicals, in your brain and in your body, that support you on this journey, and it feels like you’re literally having a trip” >>> mind.blown.
So much packed into this beautiful hour but here are some of the things we cover:
Thickness & if there’s a right way to be curvy
Her experience growing locs & how wrapping her hair cost her a job
Our Stanford experience
How she’s thinking about the visual representation of women during her creative process
The natural beauty look and clear skin privilege
Aztec clay & oil cleansing
Essential oils
Sephora getting more into natural makeup
The time and money women invest in beauty & choosing not to invest
The impact of nature on your psyche & living in the wilderness
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Products/Things Discussed:
A-lan’s Short Film Inamorata: http://www.inamoratafilm.com
Sabina Karllsson who stars in the film: https://www.instagram.com/thesabinakarlsson/?hl=en
The Thicc Gram (IG account dedicated to curvy women): https://www.instagram.com/thethiccgram/
The Brooklyn Birthing Center where she did her natural childbirth: http://www.brooklynbirthingcenter.com
The Business of Being Born documentary: http://www.thebusinessofbeingborn.com (also on Netflix)
Hard Knock Wife — hysterical stand-up comedy from my girl Ali Wong on the post-birth experience https://www.netflix.com/title/80186940
Guide to oil cleansing: https://crunchybetty.com/oil-cleansing-method/
Hazelnut Oil (A-lan’s oil of choice for cleansing): https://bit.ly/2MIQFgC
Random Acts of Flyness (new HBO show A-lan recommended): https://www.hbo.com/random-acts-of-flyness
Aztec Clay for a detoxing face mask (mixed with a little apple cider vinegar): https://amzn.to/2zOy48T
Apple Cider Vinegar for cleansing hair: https://bit.ly/2OYjQcN
Follow A-lan:https://www.instagram.com/a_lanmoon/
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Ep. 48: The Big Chop, Solo Travel & Positive Affirmations Ft. Tam Watkins
I’m joined by Tam Watkins, founder of Loza Tam, where she’s been creating beautiful satin-lined turbans and headbands for the past two years. Before becoming the entrepreneur she is today, Tam was growing up in rural Florida or as she calls it ‘Trump Country’ and talks to me about that experience & growing up with a black Republican parent & Grandparent (rare indeed)! One of the things I love about Tam is her passion for travel and learning other cultures… she shares how the idea to create Loza Tam came to her in a yoga class & how that idea led her to Ghana where she now produces her product.
We talk about her ‘Britney Spears’ moment when she cut off all her hair because it became too matted while transitioning, feeling boyish post big-chop & how one kindergarten boy made her cry. She tells me about the positive affirmations she practices each day: “I am loved”, “I have marketable skills”, etc. and how that’s changed her outlook. We discuss social media & mental health but also have to acknowledge how much YouTube helped us in our natural journey! We also cover Botox as a preventative measure, pedicures being more mandatory than manicures, Tristian Walker and her experience working on Bevel and Form, Turkish women’s approach to beauty, traveling solo and her experience in China, the importance of reading reviews, wig life and we bond over our love of Wendy Williams.
Our Fave YouTube Channels for Natural Hair Tutorials:
Kimmay Tube https://www.youtube.com/user/kimmaytube < super thorough scientific approach
Naptural85 by Whitney (arguably the natural hair YT GOAT) https://www.youtube.com/user/Naptural85
The OG Cherry Lola Treatment https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAafaJWWKUw
Products/Things Mentioned:
Watch Tam’s fave show African City (described as the African Sex & The City):
Acure- natural skincare products with proven results
R+CO Cleansing Conditioner for a product that never dries out hair but it still feels cleansed https://bit.ly/2AQqeAV
— Fenty Beauty Everything Really but these are Standouts —
Universal Gloss Bomb - best lipgloss of all time & looks great on everyone
Gold Highlighter - Killiwat/Trophy Wife
New Fenty Silver Highlighter Review
https://www.refinery29.com/rihanna-fenty-beauty-silver-highlighter-review
Heat Free Hair Clip-ins
https://heatfreehair.com/collections/clip-ins
Kinky straight half wig can be found HERE
Lancome Teint Indole 24 Hour Long Wear Foundation HERE
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I love my turban <3
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Ep. 47: Beauty Secrets Vol 6:Ayurvedic Beauty,Your Dosha & Ojas
I’ve been spending time learning about Ayurvedic Beauty — an ancient Indian approach to wellness and beauty that I’ve really connected with. Everything in Ayurveda comes back to your specific dosha type. The three doshas: vata, pitta and kapha and they’re each associated with different energies which I go through in this episode.
I also share some knowledge on maintaining Ojas. In Ayurveda, Ojas is believed to be responsible for vitality, strength, health, long life, immunity and mental/emotional wellness.
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Products/Things Mentioned on the Episode:
Best book I’ve read on Ayurvedic Beauty:
Ayurvedic Beauty Care: Ageless Techniques to Invoke Natural Beauty by Melanie Sachs
https://www.amazon.com/Ayurvedic-Beauty-Care-Ageless-Techniques/dp/091495511X
Online quiz to find your Dosha type: https://bit.ly/2v9Yz7I
Resource for Ayurvedic Recipes: https://www.ayurveda.com/resources/recipes/all
Ep. 46: Baby Hairs & Mental Health Ft. Crystal Anderson
Easily one of the most stylish women in NY — Crystal Anderson is a grounded, deep thinker but she also doesn’t believe in taking yourself too seriously which I LOVE. She has practical tips about mental health & truly expresses herself through her unique personal style. She’s currently Man Repeller’s COO (chief operations officer) and before joining MR, she launched Refinery 29’s insanely popular experiential event 29Rooms.
Crystal’s style ethos: “Getting dressed is an intentional thing that you have to do each day. But it’s for you. It’s not something for work or something you have to do with your partner — it’s just for you”Listen to hear us discuss:
- Not taking yourself too seriously when it comes to self-presentation
- How to maintain sanity in today’s crazy news cycle
- Seeing herself in Leandra Medine’s content for ManRepeller and embracing an anti-sexy/anti-approval aesthetic
- Her experience at Howard University and HBCU fashions
- Growing up mixed race and what her Italian father taught her and her siblings about how they’ll be perceived
- Coping with OCD and nurturing her Mental Health
- Dealing with panic attacks and having perspective about taking medication and getting therapy
- Sad desk lunches
- Why she loves the dewy look & clumpy mascara
- Baby hairs & why black women can’t seem to have ANYTHING of our own
- White women in braids
- Is Kim Kardashian the ultimate troll? Taylor Swift for that matter too…
- Wig Culture & Tokyo Stylez
- Why crystal wants to be Lukka Sabbat and Yara Shahidi’s aunty
- Crystal’s skincare routine (I was shocked to hear her age!)
- Her 18 tattoos & her approach to getting tatted
- Weight loss and macro nutrient tracking …….. & more!
Products & Things Mentioned:
Read about Crystal’s awesome job at Man Repeller: https://www.manrepeller.com/2018/04/crystal-anderson.html
Her experience at an in-patient mental health facility & what she’s learned: https://www.manrepeller.com/2018/05/5-things-mental-health.html Where to buy Marula Oil: https://amzn.to/2N4f10C
If you’re dying for the $80 Version of Marula Oil: https://seph.me/2L6BQA9
Drunk Elephant PolyPeptide Lotion: https://seph.me/2E1qWeV
Argan Oil: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00PGAP3E2
Milk Make-Up Facegloss for the dewy look: https://seph.me/2zpUSQG MAC
Mineralize SkinFinish the bronzer she keeps coming back to: https://bit.ly/2xwClMc
Dr. Dennis Gross Alpha Beta Pads (lots of chemicals, they kind of sting but in the best way possible): https://seph.me/2L8nu5T
Camille Rose Naturals (great products for natural hair): https://www.camillerosenaturals.com
Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Milk for those edges: https://www.amazon.com/Shea-Moisture-Coconut-Hibiscus-Style/dp/B0038TYTSO?th=1 Shea Moisture Body Oil: https://amzn.to/2uiubIX
Strong Mom’s Instagram that helped Crystal on her weightless journey: https://www.instagram.com/strongmomsofthedietdoc/
Gucci Bloom for when she’s feeling ‘ladylike’: https://on.gucci.com/2NL8adw
Palo Santo Oil (we’re both obsessed with this): https://bit.ly/2N7Xg0A
Follow Crystal on IG: https://www.instagram.com/beerbottles_chainsaws/
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Ep. 45: K-Beauty, Natural Hair & Beauty Editor Ethics Ft. Siraad Dirshe
This goes out to the true beauty junkies! Siraad is a girl with a 10-step beauty routine, who lives for Korean skincare and travels with her own silk pillow-case. She’s currently a beauty editor at Essence and she has incredible product knowledge but what I find even more impressive — her general attitude and approach towards beauty. She’s really inspired me to try new things!
We talk:
- how she graduated with a psychology and communications degree, worked in finance and then found herself transitioning to a new career in beauty at 28
- Korean skin-care & our desire to move to Japan and be teenagers
- The SWAGGER level in Korea & Japan & surprising level of black culture love
- Working with women of color
-Brands that don’t understand the Essence reader
- The ethics of being a beauty editor
- Me being a kitchen beautician
- Her natural hair journey
- maximum hydration method (not sustainable)
- the silk pillowcase & throwback memories to dominican hairdressers heating your hair
- Stanning for Pat McGrath - Dying natural hair & hair shaming in the natural hair community
- Oil cleanses & I finally learn what essences are (they’re huge in K-Beauty so they’ll get popular in the US in 6 months to a year)
- Sunscreens and eye creams & much much more
Products Mentioned:
Tatcha Camilla Oil
- https://www.sephora.com/product/pure-one-step-camellia-cleansing-oil-P392235
Powder Cleanser (Siraad recommends for traveling):
Tatcha Rice Powder Cleanser - https://seph.me/2N9sbKT
Glossier Milky Jelly Cleanser - https://www.glossier.com/products/milky-jelly-cleanser
P50 Biologique, Pricey but she swears by it - https://intothegloss.com/2017/03/biologique-recherche-p50-lotion-review/
Cure Gel - cult exfoliating product I recommend - https://www.amazon.com/Cure-Natural-Aqua-Gel-250/dp/B001ABLKK2
Koh Gen Do Essence - Japanese Essence (one step before primer)
https://kohgendocosmetics.com Ole Hendrickson Vitamin C serum, great for hyper-pigmentation
https://www.sephora.com/product/truth-serum-P42343
SuperBerry Hydrate & Glow Oil by Youth to the People, her final step in her nightly skincare routine
https://www.youthtothepeople.com/products/superberry-hydrate-and-glow-oil
Glossier Sunscreen - https://bit.ly/2MxkxbU
Kjaer Weis Dazzling Bronzer - https://bit.ly/2lDy4TY
Artis brushes, she says they’re good but she applies stuff by hand
https://www.artisbrush.com
AmiKa hair curl defining cream and gel combo - https://loveamika.com/products/c
Ep. 44: Serving Authenticity Ft. Angelica Torres
“I’ve always known that I was a female. Folks always ask ‘how did you know?’ It just was. It just is.” — Angelica Torres, NYC-native, lover of bathtubs and glitter, speaking about her experience being assigned the wrong gender at birth.
We cover SO much in this episode so I’ve provided topics and time-codes below. Angelica, so much love to you for sharing your story! Also thank you to everyone who has joined NakedBeautyPlanet on Instagram, love meeting you all.
Episode notes below: From Cardi B to Nicki Minaj and Azalea Banks, why we pit women against each other (4:30) Identifying as a trans woman at work (6:45) Dealing with suicide, depression and anxiety — issues that disproportionately impact the trans community (8:20) Being outed at work in her first corporate job (10:25) That time she was on Oprah (11:44) …but it didn’t go so well.
How she was misgendered on national television (13:45) Her experience going to Harvey Milk high school after a suicide attempt at 13 (16:35) How she knew she was a female (19:10) The fact that there’s no right or wrong way to disclose being trans when dating (25:00) That time she was on ANTM (28:47) Being taught straight hair is better & the baffling concept of colorism (shoutout to Nyma Tang) (31:00)
*Short ad break* (37:20) (shoutout to the sponsor Curology, incredible customized skincare with a special offer for Naked Beauty listeners with the link: curolo.gy/nakedbeauty to get your 1st month free today, just pay $4.95 shipping )
RuPaul’s problematic comments on trans women on Drag Race & trans women being discriminated against (39:20) Why the T doesn’t really belong in LGBT & transphobia within the community (41) How angelica handles people asking inappropriate questions about surgery (44) All of her favorite beauty products (see below, 47:11) When she feels most beautiful (58:15)
Angelica’s Beauty Must-Haves:
MACs Liquidlast Liner - a liner that stays forever and gives you the perfect early-Christina Aguilera line https://bit.ly/2yDF88Q
Clinique Stay Matte Hydrator - great for oily skin & Angelica uses as a primer https://bit.ly/2JGEvjf
Clinique Happy - Fresh & Citrusy fragrance https://bit.ly/2JGEvjf
Boscia Aluminizing black mask that takes out all skin impurities https://seph.me/2t2Qeli
FRED.NYC (192 Orchard Street) https://www.instagram.com/fred.nyc/
Lush Secret Arts Jelly Bomb - Charcoal moisturizing bath bomb https://bit.ly/2jV1DTd
Glamglow Glitter Mask Firming Treatment https://bit.ly/2JBYiQT
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Links to things discussed:
An incredible resource for homeless LGBTQ youth http://aliforneycenter.org
That time Tyra Banks revealed her real hair on her talk show lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9TVtI6gF70
Podcast by Diamond Stylez: Marsha’s Plate: Black Trans Talk: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc
Nyma Tang beauty Influencer with an incredible YouTube channel: https://www.instagram.com/nymatang/?hl=en
Kevin Aucoin - the LEGEND https://bit.ly/2l8SUdx
Learn more about Sylvia Rivera https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sylvia_Rivera
Marsha P Johnson https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marsha_P._Johnson
If you are having thoughts of suicide, please know that you are not alone. If you are in danger of acting on suicidal thoughts, call 911. For support and resources, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or text 741-741 for the Crisis Text Line.
Ep. 43: Left Overs| Sugar Addiction is Real! Ft. Kate Seward
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****** Ok so today’s leftover’s episode is from my talk with the amazing Kate Seward. In our full episode which you should definitely hear (https://apple.co/2LpWGKQ) we speak about her experience with addiction and substance abuse…which brought up this discussion around SUGAR ADDICTION - which is a very really thing that I’m currently working through.
Links Below:
- Proof the sugar is the worst thing ever: https://bit.ly/2sFeCKz
- Alternatives to sugary dessert: my go-to is tea! I love David’s Tea: https://www.davidstea.com/us_en/bestsellers/ (forever nuts and jasmine creme brûlée are my faves)
- Brain over Binge Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/brain-over-binge-podcast/id1184957849?mt=2
- The new electric toothbrush of my dreams: https://bit.ly/2Hs8vxy
Follow Kate’s awesome Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisisthepractice/
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Ep. 42: Owning It Ft. Jacquelyn DeJesu of SHHHOWERCAP
“I want to be the beacon of hope for every woman who wants to put an idea out in the world.” - my guest Jacquelyn De Jesu, the CEO, founder and creative director of Shhhowercap
I left this conversation feeling so inspired! Jackie is just the best and I feel so lucky I was able to grab her for some time on the #nakedbeautypodcast. Before becoming the wildly successful entrepreneur she is today – Jackie, the product of two creative parents (a hairdresser & set-designer), was growing up in Baldwin, Long Island. We talk about the trends of yore she embraced in her youth: Solo pants (remember these?!), chunky highlights, French tip acrylics & fake tans. Jackie received attention at an early age when she developed earlier than her peers but she embraced her newfound curves and it allowed her to understand the power of female sexuality early on. We discuss the importance of the body pos movement, diversity in advertising and how she’s been able to create an inspiring culture for her company and her team. She explains how she knew corporate America wasn’t for her long-term and we discuss using your talents for your own brand vs creating for someone else. But she also keeps it real about what’s required to run a successful company. Balls drop and self-sacrifice is real -- but she was willing to deprioritize herself to see crazy growth early on.
We talk about the French approach to family and having a healthy marriage (her husband is also a creative and 100% supportive of her girlboss moves), and the importance of a good support system. Jackie explains that if you create a great brand, you will get funding and she believes in the power of design to create big business.
Jackie loves:
Having a personal trainer (an indulgence that makes a big difference) She will happily spend money on Sakara (100% plant-based organic meals) https://www.sakara.com
Kristen Noel crawley Eyemasks (to brighten, moisturize & lift your under-eye area) https://kncbeauty.com/products/knc-star-eye-mask
Credo Beauty Vital Foaming Cleanser https://credobeauty.com/products/vital-foaming-cleanser
Rosebud Salve https://www.sephora.com/product/rosebud-salve-P42204
Nars Schiap Semi Matte Lip (she feels naked without a lip) https://www.narscosmetics.com/USA/schiap-semi-matte-lipstick/0607845010418.html *** Make sure to follow Jackie on Instagram (she’s amazing): https://www.instagram.com/deejayzoo/
And obviously get yourself and everyone you care about a Shhhowercap: https://www.shhhowercap.com/shop/
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Ep. 41: Leftovers| Being Yourself While Dating Ft. Lindsey Metselaar
When do you reveal your true self when dating? Listen for some leftovers from my chat with Lindsey Metselaar where we discuss how to use positive reinforcement to get what you want while dating, sharing the less likable aspects of your personality early on, and how to handle double dates. EXCITING NEWS: I started an Instagram account just for this show. Join the community @NAKEDBEAUTYPLANET: https://www.instagram.com/nakedbeautyplanet/ Listen to my full episode with Lindsey here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-contour-before-your-date-ft-lindsey-metselaar/id1131628553?i=1000408855423&mt=2 Check out her podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/we-met-at-acme/id1300757042?mt=2 Music by Jay Killa: https://soundcloud.com/jkila/uptown-eastside-ft-cav SUDIO headphones: https://goo.gl/QhpRm1 ** CODE: NAKEDBEAUTY FOR 15% OFF ANY PURCHASE**
This episode was mixed by Laila Oweda
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Ep. 40: A Hippie with Edge Ft. Kate Seward
“I know that if I had kept drinking and doing drugs the way that I was, I would have died. There wasn’t really another option.” — Kate on her decision to get sober
On this episode of the #nakedbeautypodcast I’m joined by Kate — writer and lover of all things wellness. We discuss this universal phenomenon of women constantly thinking about their hair…. what to do with it, to dye or not to dye, etc. - why is it constantly on our minds? Kate gives me insight into going platinum blonde & I get her thoughts re: as a white woman how much she worries about cultural appropriation... We talk about a summer in the South of France breeding insecurity, going on her first diet at 10, and her super-chic Mom practicing ‘radical candor’ way before it was fashionable. Kate, who’s now 11 years sober, talks about the 12-step program and embracing the practice. Also stay tuned for a hilarious take on why my question ‘when do you feel most beautiful?’ is so hard to answer (54:15)
Follow Kate/ DM her to chat: https://www.instagram.com/thekateseward/
Stay in touch with me: https://www.instagram.com/brookevard/ Join the community on Instagram @Nakedbeautyplanet
Products/Things Mentioned:
Drinking a Love Story by Caroline Knapp https://www.amazon.com/Drinking-Love-Story-Caroline-Knapp/dp/0385315546
Cat Marnell’s Amphetamine Logic https://www.vice.com/en_us/topic/amphetamine-logic
Angel Wash by Kevin Murphy https://www.kevinmurphystore.com/shampoo/angel-wash
Collagen Powder for added protein with your morning coffee https://bit.ly/2K5y2OU
Sakura Life Chocolate Collagen https://www.sakara.com/products/beauty-chocolates
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Ep. 39: Beauty Secrets Vol. 5: Beauty Lessons from Beyoncé
The four beauty lessons we can all learn from QueenB. From her vegan diet, to her flawless skin to her always-on point looks.
Check out these amazing episodes breaking down Beyonce’s historical Coachella performance:
NYTimes Still Processing: ‘We Talk Beychella’ https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/still-processing/id1151436460?mt=2#
The Read ‘Beychella”: https://soundcloud.com/theread/beychella
TIP 1: SLAY YOUR BASICS
Beyonce Slaying Basics Exhibit A: https://www.instagram.com/p/BdD7mojF3IP/?hl=en&taken-by=beyonce
Exhibit B: https://www.instagram.com/p/3hPbQmvw4P/?hl=en&taken-by=beyonce
Exhibit C: https://www.instagram.com/p/0bQZIqPw3r/?hl=en&taken-by=beyonce
I tracked down the shorts she wore for her Coachella Set: https://shopcoalnterry.com/products/ragged-blue-mad-cutoff < not brave enough for these
My fave brands for basic leotards/tees:
$:http://www.nakedwardrobe.com/ (Naked Wardrobe)
$$: https://shopredone.com/collections/solid-tees (Re-Done)
$$$: http://www.wolfordshop.com/bodysuits (Wolford)
TIP 2: DANCE FOR CARDIO
Best dance classes in NYC: https://bananaskirt.net
Teyana Taylor’s Fade to Fit Program: https://fade2fit.com/lp1
TIP 3: PRIORITIZE SKINCARE
Rhassoul Clay for DIY face masks: https://www.amazon.com/Poppy-Austin-Organic-Rhassoul-Clay/dp/B00GWG63OS
Great Guide on Making your own facial oil: https://oneessentialcommunity.com/diy-face-serum-with-essential-oil-skin-type/
TIP 4: GOLDEN HIGHLIGHTS
Highlight colors I try & where I order Crochet Hair:
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Ep. 38: Leftovers|The Rise of the Social Media Fembot Ft. Recho Omondi
Bonus! Recho and I discuss how new technologies, that seem harmless, are shaping gender perceptions in dangerous ways. Subscribe to the show and please rate and review if you have a moment: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-naked-beauty-podcast/id1131628553?mt=2
Read the full story by Amanda Hess via the New York Times: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/04/arts/fembot-poppy-lil-miquela-kylie-jenner.html
Ceck Out Lil Miquela - a virtual influencer *a-must-see* https://www.instagram.com/lilmiquela/?hl=en
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Ep. 37: Don't Contour Before Your Date Ft. Lindsey Metselaar
“My exes have really hot exes. And I need them to be hot.”— today’s guest Lindsey Metselaar Lindsey, who also hosts her own fab podcast — We Met at Acme, a show about millennial dating in NYC, had a lot to say & strong opinions that kept me cracking up the entire time.
Lindsey shares how she felt about herself growing up, being the ‘elephant in the room’ in high school and curly-hair shame. I ask her if she really eats everything posted on @dontexpectsalads and we talk about a misguided anorexia intervention from well-meaning friends (she does eat for the record). We discuss dating apps Hinge and Raya, how Lindsey gets ready for dates and how men don’t really understand how much make-up goes into the ‘no-make-up look’. We cover Brazilian waxes vs landing strips and why guys get away with having ‘full bushes’. Lindsey describes her ideal woman, why she prefers her exes to have hot exes, her thoughts on lip injections, thick eyebrows, nose jobs in the Jewish community and love for dry shampoo.
******* Follow Lindsey https://www.instagram.com/lindzmetz/
Follow We Met at Acme on IG: https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/
Hear me discuss my dating years & the Rules on We Met at Acme: https://apple.co/2EJsaYy
Learn more about her show: https://www.wemetatacme.com
Products Mentioned
Glossier Tinted Moisturizer https://www.glossier.com/products/perfecting-skin-tint
Laura Mercier Tinted Moisturizer https://www.sephora.com/product/tinted-moisturizer-P310930?country_switch=ca
Soft shirts from ATM for Lindsey’s go-to first date look https://atmcollection.com
Oribe Hair products https://www.oribe.com
Dry Shampoo from Dry Bar https://www.thedrybar.com/detox-dry-shampoo
Book She’s Loving - I Like You Just the Way I Am https://www.amazon.com/Like-You-Just-Way-Am/dp/1250055830
Glam Squad to find a make-up artist https://www.glamsquad.com/
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Ep. 36: Vintage Black Glamour Ft. Nichelle Gainer
I’m joined by Vintage Black Glamour author, the fabulous Nichelle Gainer — a self-described “black history encyclopedia”.
We discuss how what started out as a research project for a novel inspired by her great aunt, Mildred Taylor, a model in the 1950s evolved into the Vintage Black Glamour Tumblr site in 2011. I learn about the history of black beauty pageants, the ‘Four Goddesses’: Josephine Baker, Lena Horne, Dorthy Dandridge and Ertha Kitt and why they’ve been able to maintain icon status decades later. We talk about the “It Girls” of the Harlem Renaissance like A’Lelia Walker and Blanche Dunne, roles black actresses have had to take in Hollywood, and the importance of keeping these stories alive for future generations. Nichelle tells me about growing up in South Jersey in the 70s and 80s and why when it comes to her hair — you get what you pay for. Links below for deeper dives on all the people we discusses together.
Nichelle’s Wonderful Books that I Can’t Recommend Enough: http://amzn.to/2CltqEs (Vintage Black Glamour) http://amzn.to/2oxy8Wh (Gentleman’s Quarters) Get Familiar with the Four Goddesses (Rare Photos) Josephine Baker http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/search/josephine+baker Lena Horne http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Lena-Horne Dorothy Dandridge http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Dorothy-Dandridge Eartha Kitt http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Eartha-Kitt
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Key Figures of the Harlem Renaissance (1920s-30s)
James Van Der Zee — photographer of the Harlem Renaissance http://bit.ly/2GLLKEY http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/James-Van-Der-Zee
Carl Van Vechten — another key photographer and author of the Harlem Renaissance, he was German and slightly controversial http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/tagged/Carl-Van-Vechten https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Van_Vechten
Blanche Dunne — socialite and actress known as one of the most beautiful and fashionable women of the Renaissancehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blanche_Dunn
Madame CJ Walker — entrepreneur, first Black Woman to become a millionaire https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madam_C._J._Walker
A’Lelia Walker—Madame CJ Walker’s daughter, patron of the arts & hostess of infamous bathtub gin parties https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A%27Lelia_Walker
Other People Mentioned Diahann Carol — actress http://vintageblackglamour.tumblr.com/search/Diahann+Carroll
Katherine Dunham — dancer, activist https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katherine_Dunham
Carmen de Lavallade— dancer, choreographer https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carmen_de_Lavallade
Cicely Tyson — one of the few actresses of her time who sported natural hair looks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cicely_Tyson
Donyale Luna — First black model to be on a Vogue cover, she had a wild life https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donyale_Luna
Edward Enninful — First and current EIC of British Vogue https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_Enninful
Fredi Washington https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fredi_Washington
Resources/Books/Videos Mentioned
Schomburg Research Center (in Harlem with online archives) https://www.nypl.org/locations/schomburg
On Her Own Ground: The Life and Times of Madam C.J. Walker (written by her great-granddaughter) http://amzn.to/2GLz4hg
Black and Beautiful (Book on Black Models) http://amzn.to/2F4tBF4
Lena Horne on Dick Cavett https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKLErsgF_P4
Hair Khamit Kinks — Where Nichelle gets her ‘baby curl twists’ http://khamitkinks.com
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This episode was mixed by Laila Oweda
Music "In the Garden" by Jason Minnis aka Classicbeatz
Ep. 35: Do More With Less Ft. Mekdela Maskal
“It’s realizing how much you don’t need and seeing how much we are brainwashed to think that what makes us happy is being able to buy something. Letting that go is really freeing…not having this attachment to material objects as a measure of happiness.” — My guest, Mekdela Maskal
Mekdela is a media activist, living in Brooklyn, and fellow nature-lover with amazing style and beautiful natural hair. We go deep on her routine for the ideal wash day — from coconut oil pre-poo treatments to long finger-detangling sessions in the shower. I learn about what beauty wisdom she’s taken in from her Ethiopian parents and what the popular styles and approaches to beauty are in Ethiopia. Mekdela talks to me about what natural oils she loves, her yoga practice, how intentionally sweating is key for her skincare routine and gives me some INCREDIBLE make-up tips like using lipstick as eyeshadow (why haven’t I ever thought of this?!) .
We also get into the commercialization of the feminist movement and her issues with the way diversity and inclusion is used as a marketing tactic, how she developed her personal style and why she feels most beautiful surrounded by nature.
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Some Faves Mentioned in the Episode:
Outdoor Voices leggings https://bit.ly/2Gayq0Y
Coconut & Hibiscus Leave-In Conditioner and Curling Cream from Shea Moisture https://www.sheamoisture.com/products/hair.html?p=3&product_collection=228
Everyday Oil - mixture of different essential oils Mekdela loves https://shopeverydayoil.com
Sacred Yoga Studio in Brooklyn https://sacredbrooklyn.com
Arkins - sustainable women’s wear line https://shop-arkins.com
Ep. 34: Survival of the Fittest Ft. Recho Omondi
“Here I am running my own business which literally means — I’m making up all of this shit as I go. I’m not any particular genius” - Recho Omondi…… but low-key (IMHO) Recho is a genius Designer, friend and deep-thinker, Recho, returns to Naked Beauty! We talk about her now iconic n*ggas sweatshirt and how it found its way on to Issa Rae’s Insecure, why the timeline is the new runway, how the fashion cycle is constantly persuading us to consume and its subsequent impact on the environment. Recho has received a lot of press (hey Teen Vogue!), but she’s not buying into the hype — she talks about the difference between press coverage and industry success.
We also get into: - How she handles stress when everything feels like it’s falling apart but you also have a business to run (:16)
- Getting back into ballet & the “leave it at the bar” mentality (:21)
- Using heartbreak to create something magical & how the 90s classic “Great Expectations” inspired her latest collection (:28)
- How my Sudio wireless headphones (hey first sponsor!) have changed the game (33:45)
- The trends I’m really over, what I’m loving & getting into the sweatpants look(:35)
- Fragrance obsessions Le Labo, Tom Ford and Byredo (:38)
- Roll-on body glitter, YM & Limited Too Nostalgia & what the youth are missing out on being in this digital vortex(:49:35)
- Is this new generation ‘fake-woke’? Recho thinks so! They shave their heads but not their underarms…. (:52)
- Balancing the toxic and natural elements of a beauty routine (55:30)
- A VERY HOT TAKE ON BLACK PANTHER (:58:20) — don’t worry she still loved it
- That tine Mira Duma used the n-word on Instagram but how it’s even deeper than that (1:05)
- The thought-process behind posting a FIRE selfie (1:10)
Links: Follow Recho: https://www.instagram.com/rechoooooooo/
Follow Omondi: https://www.instagram.com/omndi/ Shop Omondi: http://rechoomondi.com
Recho’s Teen Vogue Story: https://www.teenvogue.com/gallery/recho-omondi-fashion-inspiration-racism-exclusive-interview
Sudio Headphones: https://goo.gl/QhpRm1
The Scents We Love: - Tom Ford Tobacco Vanille - Le Labo Santal 33 - Tom Ford White Suede - Byredo B’Al Dafrique
Also check out Lucky Scent to try samples: https://www.luckyscent.com
Ep. 33: Self-Care Isn’t an Excuse Ft. Darian Symone
Digital consultant working with brands like Glossier and Into the Gloss, podcaster, news curator and passionate self-starter who’s dedicated to skincare, Darian Symone, joins me on this episode of the #nakedbeautypodcast.
We discuss moving from NY to LA, interning at Beyonce’s Parkwood, why she loves Melina Matsoukas, and the platform she’s created with her podcast, ‘Am I Allowed To Like Anything’. Darian’s skincare routine is VERY THOROUGH and involves using acids for exfoliation, controlling oil on her t-zone, minimizing her pores and finding the perfect SPF. She also lets me in on all of her haircare secrets for the perfect weave and explains the importance of finding a great stylist and buying quality hair. Growing up as the only girl of color in her class in Buffalo, NY, Darian explains how this influenced her world view. We talk about ‘white feminism’, the Women’s March (which we both didn’t attend) and dissect some of the reasons why.
Darian explains “I’m really careful not to use self-care as an excuse for the things I’m just afraid to do”, a warning we should all take into consideration because it’s just too easy to neglect responsibilities in the name of ‘self-care’. Lots of fun discussion on the highlighter trend going too far, breast reductions and why we stan for SZA and Princess Nokia.
Products/Stories/Resources Mentioned:
Essence Story on Our Beauty Resolutions: https://www.essence.com/beauty/real-women-beauty-resolutions-2018
Oil Cleansing via Minimalist Beauty http://www.minimalistbeauty.com/tag/oil-cleansing/
Darian’s Podcast Am I Allowed To Like Anything: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/am-i-allowed-to-like-anything-a-podcast/id1019767867?mt=2
Murad Sunscreen (one of my faves) http://seph.me/2EoXhcD
Chantecaille Sunscreen (expensive but worth it) http://bit.ly/2o3X2wA
Darian’s Skincare Faves: Erno Lazlo Light Controlling Lotion https://www.ernolaszlo.com/light-controlling-lotion.html
Glossier Primer http://bit.ly/2GaqtnV
Caudelie Overnight Detox Night Oil https://www.sephora.com/product/vine-activ-overnight-detox-oil-P417122
Beauty Pie - How she shops for her products (*genius*) https://www.beautypie.com/us
Darian’s Hair Faves: Jhavuanna Moody instagram.com/oak2bk
Indique Hair (for the perfect weave/blend situation) https://www.yelp.com/biz/indique-virgin-hair-extensions-new-york-2
Pravana treatment (semi-permanent smoothing treatment) http://www.pravana.com/texture/perfection-smoothout-solution.html
Follow Darian @ https://www.instagram.com/darian/
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Ep. 32: Beauty Secrets Vol. 4: Clear Your Beauty Clutter
We all want Into the Gloss & Pinterest-worthy beauty shelves. It’s CRITICAL that you organize your beauty space for the ultimate self-care practice. In this episode, I share my 5 essential steps to clearing beauty clutter — a process that I’m currently undergoing & not quite sure why I waited so long to do bc the results….*life-changing*
STEP 1: EVALUATE & TOSS OR FIND ANOTHER USE FOR IT - With a little help from Japanese organization expert and best-selling author Marie Kondo, I encourage you to go through all of your products and ask “Does this spark joy?” if not toss it or find another use for it (some good tips for repurposing products)
STEP 2: ORGANIZE YOUR MAKE-UP BY FREQUENCY OF USE - Now that you only have the things you love, organize your products by how often you use them
STEP 3: TRY TO FINISH WHAT YOU HAVE BEFORE YOU BUY - Make it your mission to finish products before you get new ones and join me in my pledge to STOP buying lipgloss
STEP 4: BUY SMARTER - Always sample before you buy, Sephora will forever have my heart bc you can return everything - NEVER buy foundation without testing for a full day and the same goes for fragrance
STEP 5: MAKE STORAGE CHIC - I use empty candle holders or mason jars to store my brushes and pencils
Products/Resources Mentioned In this Episode:
Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up (Book by Marie Kondo) https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing-ebook/dp/B00KK0PICK
Make-up brush cleaner (So you can keep your brushes pristine) http://amzn.to/2rNSwaJ
Poshmark (To sell your unwanted make-up) https://poshmark.com/
Lucky Scent (If you want to try fragrance before you buy) https://www.luckyscent.com/samples
Make-up Travel Bags Bad & Boujee Option: https://store.prada.com/en/pradaww/man/man-travel/2NA030-064-F0002
More Sensible Options from Ricky’s: https://www.rickysnyc.com/makeup.html/tools-accessories/makeup-bags-cases.html
Other Things
We Met at Acme ft. Brooke DeVard https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/we-met-at-acme/id1300757042?mt=2&i=1000400367344 Inspiration For Your Best Beauty Space Ever http://bit.ly/2DPI47S Stay in touch https://www.instagram.com/brookedevard/
ALSO, I just launched my site :) check-it out to see more of my guests, videos and about the show: http://www.nakedbeautypodcast.com/
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Ep. 31: Island Gal Vibes Ft. Eniye Kagbala
“Caribbean women are just something else” - my guest, dear friend, and artist, Eniye Kagbala aka 333niye on the unrivaled confidence of Caribbean women.
We met online years ago, spent time together in London (going to fashion week & doing the most) but Eniye hails from St.Vincent. Since moving back to to the island from London, she’s learning to be grateful for life in paradise and “just LIVE” rather than chase. We talk about what makes quintessential island girl style — which she believes is about throwing on whatever is comfortable and not overthinking your look. We discuss buying hair on AliExpress, the importance of reading reviews before you buy and how to preserve braids. Eniye has dyed her hair AND brows at home with bleach for a very striking signature look.
We talk about how her hair journey began in Nigeria, why she loves Gwen Stefani, Tom Ford and Alaia and how she approaches her music and the creative process. Eniye believes life is about perfecting the art of living and that we’re all on non-linear paths.
Products/ Sites/Books Mentioned
Shala Monroque (all over my pinterest page and our shared style crush) http://bit.ly/2D1jdhc
Ali Express Kinky Curly Ombre Hair (best hair for beach life according to Eniye) http://bit.ly/2Djtd2a
In Search of Wisdom One Philosophers Journey (book she's loving) http://amzn.to/2DlSQzg
Get more Eniye in your life: http://eniye-kagbala.tumblr.com/
https://soundcloud.com/eniyemusic
https://www.instagram.com/333niye_/